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        "rendered": "<h1>Vz\u0165ahy nie s\u00fa o dokonalosti, ale o porozumen\u00ed<\/h1>\n<p>Vz\u0165ahy patria k najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161\u00edm oblastiam n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota. Ovplyv\u0148uj\u00fa na\u0161u n\u00e1ladu, sebavedomie aj pocit \u0161\u0165astia. Napriek tomu \u010dasto o\u010dak\u00e1vame, \u017ee vz\u0165ah bude fungova\u0165 \u201es\u00e1m od seba\u201c. Pravda je v\u0161ak jednoduch\u00e1 \u2013 <strong>dobr\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy sa buduj\u00fa postupne<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Pre\u010do s\u00fa vz\u0165ahy dnes n\u00e1ro\u010dnej\u0161ie?<\/h2>\n<p>\u017dijeme r\u00fdchlo. M\u00e1me ve\u013ea povinnost\u00ed, m\u00e1lo \u010dasu a e\u0161te menej priestoru na otvoren\u00fa komunik\u00e1ciu. \u010casto sa boj\u00edme poveda\u0165, \u010do c\u00edtime, aby sme niekoho neurazili alebo nestratili.<\/p>\n<p>Vz\u0165ahy v\u0161ak netrpia nedostatkom l\u00e1sky, ale <strong>nedostatkom porozumenia<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Komunik\u00e1cia je z\u00e1klad v\u0161etk\u00e9ho<\/h2>\n<p>Bez \u00faprimnej komunik\u00e1cie nefunguje \u017eiadny vz\u0165ah \u2013 partnersk\u00fd ani priate\u013esk\u00fd. Nejde o to hovori\u0165 ve\u013ea, ale hovori\u0165 pravdivo.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>poveda\u0165, ke\u010f sa c\u00edtime dobre<\/li>\n<li>poveda\u0165, ke\u010f n\u00e1s nie\u010do tr\u00e1pi<\/li>\n<li>vedie\u0165 po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 bez hodnotenia<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u010casto u\u017e oby\u010dajn\u00fd rozhovor dok\u00e1\u017ee vyrie\u0161i\u0165 viac ne\u017e dlh\u00e9 ml\u010danie.<\/p>\n<h2>Vz\u0165ah nie je boj, ale spolupr\u00e1ca<\/h2>\n<p>Vo vz\u0165ahoch nejde o to, kto m\u00e1 pravdu. Ide o to, <strong>\u010di si dvaja \u013eudia dok\u00e1\u017eu vytvori\u0165 spolo\u010dn\u00fd priestor<\/strong>, kde sa obaja c\u00edtia bezpe\u010dne.<\/p>\n<p>Konflikty s\u00fa prirodzen\u00e9. Rozdiel je v tom, ako s nimi nalo\u017e\u00edme. Bu\u010f n\u00e1s rozdelia, alebo n\u00e1s posun\u00fa bli\u017e\u0161ie k sebe.<\/p>\n<h2>By\u0165 s\u00e1m sebou je najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia v\u00fdhoda<\/h2>\n<p>Mnoho vz\u0165ahov zlyh\u00e1 preto, \u017ee sa na za\u010diatku sna\u017e\u00edme by\u0165 niek\u00fdm in\u00fdm. Chceme zap\u00f4sobi\u0165, zapadn\u00fa\u0165, vyhovie\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>Skuto\u010dn\u00fd vz\u0165ah v\u0161ak vznik\u00e1 vtedy, ke\u010f sa nemus\u00edme pretvarova\u0165. <strong>Ke\u010f sme prijat\u00ed tak\u00ed, ak\u00ed sme.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>Vz\u0165ahy sa vyv\u00edjaj\u00fa, nie s\u00fa nemenn\u00e9<\/h2>\n<p>\u013dudia sa menia. N\u00e1zory, priority aj \u017eivotn\u00e9 okolnosti. Zdrav\u00fd vz\u0165ah dok\u00e1\u017ee tieto zmeny prija\u0165 a prisp\u00f4sobi\u0165 sa im.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je hovori\u0165 o tom, kam smerujeme a \u010do od vz\u0165ahu o\u010dak\u00e1vame.<\/p>\n<h2>Z\u00e1ver: Dobr\u00fd vz\u0165ah je rozhodnutie<\/h2>\n<p>L\u00e1ska nie je len pocit. Je to rozhodnutie zosta\u0165, po\u010d\u00fava\u0165, sna\u017ei\u0165 sa a r\u00e1s\u0165 spolu. Vz\u0165ahy nie s\u00fa v\u017edy jednoduch\u00e9, ale ke\u010f maj\u00fa pevn\u00e9 z\u00e1klady, stoja za to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ka\u017ed\u00fd vz\u0165ah je pr\u00edbeh. Ot\u00e1zka je, ako ho chceme p\u00edsa\u0165.<\/strong><\/p>",
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